UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

"To be brave is to love unconditionally without expecting anything in return." – Madonna . After watching the Twilight series , i began believing so, but personally i don't think that this is true. Unconditional love, how blissful it sounds, may be in case of our parents, siblings to an extent , but when it comes to other relationships, or even for your life partner, i don't think this holds true :/ .
 
People in a relationship always want something in return, be it love itself, importance, or self respect, but the gist is something is always expected. People may never demand, but they surely expect and when they don't get what they expect, problems arise. Well, i believe that if two people are in a relation then they should be happy , no matter what but i realized that everything, every little thing matters.

People are in a constant need of love, care and appreciation, they go where they find these. But the problem is that things change, people change, times change. In the beginning, everything seems so rosy and peaceful, we are constantly proving our love, care to the other person. But where does all of this disappear with time ? :|   

Why do we stop showing our love to the person we love the most ? Why does saying sorry become too difficult ? Why do we start thinking about ourselves, our ego more than the other person ?
Just, why do we start taking our partner for granted ? Or maybe we start thinking that our partner already knows that we love him/her too much, so saying it is not important  ? o_O

Relationships are not for granted, we all have heard this at one time or the other, but fail to realize this. Why don't we just start showing what we feel , without thinking whether our partner knows it or not ? I seriously don't think that love is unconditional, of course we all expect things which make us happy. We all want to feel a little blessed, a little pampered, a little weak , don't we ?  :$

                             Just live and Let live but moreover, Love and be Loved !

ALL SAID AND DONE.

"Words once said can never be taken back", a very popular saying and i personally agree to it. Whatever a person says changes with the situation he/she is in. If you are in a rocking mood , you'd say different things, then again, if you feel vulnerable , you will say some other things. There are so many good and bad feelings which control the words we say. Feelings and words are very strongly connected, but the main problem is that sometimes we don't say what we actually feel for someone, instead we say whatever we feel like saying :P .
                                                There goes a story of Gautam Buddha where he was sitting under a tree and a visitor comes to meet him. Before they could start talking , two people came near that tree and were fighting with each other and shouting on top of their voices. The man saw this and questioned Gautam Buddha , " Why do people shout when they are angry ? ". Gautam Buddha took some time and answered the man , "Have you seen people in love ? How close their hearts are ? They talk so softly with each other because their hearts are very close. Then they start whispering when their hearts come even closer , and then there is a time when there is no space between their hearts, their hearts become one, that's the time when they just see in each others eyes and understand each other. Now the people who are angry, though they might be standing very near, shout while saying anything , because their hearts are very distant. This distance is so much that all their power of reasoning just collapses ,and then they say hurtful things to each other. We must never let this happen. "  The man was very happy and satisfied with the answer Buddha gave him.
                                                               I gave a thought to this and i feel maybe it's true somewhere. There are many people who say hurtful things to the people they love the most in a state of anger. Some of the things aren't even relevant or true :| . In any relationship, fights are inevitable, but saying and hurting the other person is not at all right. The person who says those things might just say it and leave, but the one who hears it is the one who gets hurts. Everyone gets hurt , everyone cries in isolation. You may ask anyone, how their life is, some may say it's a mess, some may say that they are simply living. The many the people, that many different answers. We all have ups and downs in our lives, there are many happy moments, and then there are many sad one's too. No matter what you do, you can never ever avoid the sad phases of life. But that's the best part, these phases, these episodes of life are the one's that brings out the best in you. It may hurt for a while, sometimes it may hurt a lot, but no worries ! Sulk for a while, think about it , when you realize you can't change it, you can't change what's done, that's the moment you'll change your self..! :i . This person will be one step ahead than the previous one. So, next time someone asks you how is your life going, your answer should be.."Great ! " :) :e .

IT's Show Time !

"Let's go for a movie this weekend ! " , is most the most heard sentence in my life, and most of the time i am the one saying it.. ;) . A movie may be made for several different reasons, no matter what that might be , but some movies really touch my heart. If ever i am asked where i would like to go , my first answer would be to the movies. I don't know the exact reason why i like watching movies so much , maybe it's because that those few minutes of the movie makes me forget the world i am living in ! I go into the world the director, producer, the entire team takes me to. I really connect to some movies :D for example , Harry Potter. When i see that movie, and i mean every single part of the entire series, it just makes me want to fly to "Hogwarts". I kept daydreaming about it for many days when i watched it's first part, which is " Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone ". I wanted to be in some School house with the help of the "Sorting Hat", wanted to walk in the the Hogwarts corridor's talking to the ghosts,wanted to be a part of "Quidditch Cup",so many more things :d . That movie made me forget my real world where we are alloted school houses by filling forms, where we have corridor's without some ghost walking besides us, and for sports we have Relays, Hurdles, etc.
                                                             How fascinating some movies can be ! Sometimes i want to be Iron Man, sometimes i want to talk to the Transformers, sometimes I want to be an X-Men :e . Every movie has something to tell us. A single movie can provide many different morals or values to many different people. It's all about how much we feel something, how much we want something in our life's and how we see our life's and ourselves. The makers of a particular film have a very important role as they affect a million lives by their work. A single movie may change someone's mind about something , it may make someone too casual about life, too carefree to think about their future and may challenge someone's treasured beliefs. On the other hand , the movies also teach us to enjoy every moment, to touch someone's life , friendship,to fall in love. It matters what they show but it depends on what you see. :-)

A NEW MOBILE..!!

It's been over a week since I lost my cellphone.. It was not a very expensive one to cry over but I still do miss it like hell..! I still remember the day when I bought it.. I was so excited about possessing it that I used to show it off in front of my younger siblings,since they did not have any..!

                                                                       The cellphone I lost was a Nokia Product,so stable that it never gave me any reason to change it(Was a little frustrating at times though) But nevertheless, I never did regret buying it.. And now, that I am without it I feel like I am incomplete..! That addiction of looking at the cellphone numerous times.. either for a message or to check on the time.. whatever be it.. I always kept it by my side.. But that day when I was out for some work.. And just to cut the long story short..I was home when I realized that I was without my Cell and I felt so bad that I wish I could make the clock reverse and get it back.. Many people say that I have this Crazy habit of taking care of things to the Limit.! Although I don't completely believe it but it was true in case of my Handset.. 

                                                                                        I will be getting a new one today.. but I really wonder how difficult it could be without a Mobile.. But the best part was that I never got any intimation of my results..! :-) Although people posted it on Facebook but luckily I was out of town so never logged in... At present I am just waiting for my handset which I ordered online... The site said that it would be delivered before 6 p.m... Let's see how prompt they are...! Oh... My doorbell just rang.. I think I know who it might be... ;-)

LET'S ALL TURN BLIND....

A child knows no race,

A child knows no religion,

He doesn't know the words of hate that surface,

On the tongues of the million that breathe...

A Child doesn't know what is a temple or mosque,

because he believes in one divine power, one lord,

but soon he finds the difference,

because we taught him all.....

A child doesn't see to which race a person belongs,

before lending a helping hand to the person in need,

but soon he becomes aware of of the races and takes away his hand,

because that is what we want him to do and believe....

A child makes friends with the people he is happy with,

and he sees no rich or poor,

but soon he realizes that a poor friend is of no use and his wisdom begins to fall,

he starts seeing only the rich because we taught him all....

We go on teaching this child thinking that he does not understand,

but all we did was take away the little things he understood well,

We fail to teach him humanity, friendship and love for his land,

The very essence of life is what we forget to tell....

A child is the father of the man they say,

which is true because it is the child who teaches us to live,

with free spirits and love for every living being,

and show us what this life truly means...

We all have forgotten that we are children too,

of this great mother earth,

so why not live like a child and and create a place all new,

a land which we can only dream,let's make it come true....

THE FEEDBACK PARTNER

There are several social organizations such as the Lions club , Rotary club ,etc. One such organization which I am related to is the JCI (Junior Chambers International).. It is a vast organization and works by forming seperate small organizations... My mother is the President of one such organization by the name JCI WOMEN'S WORLD...
                                        Since my Mother is the President, I always got an oppurtunity to go to various meetings and seminars... My Mother always used to tell me that she wants to attend Dr.Suresh Chari's seminar once during her tenure... Since he is one of the best Trainers(One who takes the seminar) of the organization and also a leading psychiatrist.... And so,  after a long wait , finally my Mother's wish came true.. Dr.Suresh Chari's seminar was held in Tuli International by some other organization which was again a part of this JCI... When my Mother informed me about this I was really excited about it and kept wondering about the topic that Dr.Suresh Chari would choose to enlighten us with... Days went by really fast and there I was... Sitting on one of the chairs in one of the halls of Tuli International... Waiting for Dr.chari to start off with his seminar... Dr. Chari first greeted everyone warmly and then introduced us with his topic which was.. "The Feedback Partner"..!!! I was awfully confused about the topic and took a glance at the audience around me which looked more confused than me...!! Just then Dr.Chari pointed towards me and questioned me as to what do I understand by this topic... I answered what I knew about "Feedback"... I said that I came across this word only in my college wherein we are given "Feedback Forms"  which are to be filled for our teachers...!! And he laughed at it and said "What do they do in college's these days...!" .. and proceeded with the seminar... As the time passed , my concepts about the topic became clearer... The gist of the topic was that you should have atleast one feedback partner for yourself in life... A feedback patner is the one who can tell you your mistakes honestly and only when the time is right without hurting your feelings, guide you about what is right and what is wrong... You can have your feedback patner in your friend, sister , mother or anyone whom you trust and who knows you well... If we succeed in finding such a patner for ourselves , we can surely get through a lot in our life... I found this topic very interesting and came with the conclusion that maybe our inner conscience is not enough to guide us... We can always seek a little help from the people around us...!! I am just waiting desperately to attend Dr.Chari's seminar again...

THE WINNING EXPRESSION

It has been quite some time that the rainy season has gone by... (one of my favourite seasons) ... But I do recall an "Epidemic" which bursted out during this season... known as conjunctivitis...I prefer to call it an epidemic since I was surrounded by the victims of this viral infection... In my family of five..I was the only one who was not affected by it.... And it required major precautions which is not something that one would be interested to know....
             One day... when I was at home...consumed by some work given to me... my brother came running to me and told me that he had been selected for an elocution competition in his respective school... I sure was very happy for him and congratulated him , he did not have any infection as such at that time...(But my mom , dad and my younger sister had the infection , we just took the necessary precautions.. ) After some days I advised my brother that he should start with his preparation for the competition and he told me that I have to write the matter for him...! This really took me by surprise but I did not fret and promised him that the job will be done in no time... One of the reasons I agreed was that I found the topic really interesting , which was.. "The healing power of love"... I did my work and handed over the matter to him and he started practising... Just two days prior to the competition... my brother became one of the victims of the viral infection.... CONJUNCTIVITIS!!! ... But nothing could had been done now... The best part was on the day of his elocution... He had to wear sunglasses and go...!! (I was not able to stop laughing when
I saw him in the glasses) ..I wished him the best of luck and he left for school.... I was very eager to know the results but could do nothing , but wait... And at 2:30 p.m , this wait came to an end... My brother came and announced that he stood fourth... I kept thinking the reason for it ,. since he is a very good speaker and usually wins.... so ,I asked him the reason ... He told me that the judges were stupid , further adding, he said that the judges told him that they were not able to view his expressions because of the sunglasses...!!!! There was silence for a moment ... and then me and my brother looked at each other and started laughing at the stupidity of the situation.... We continued laughing till our stomaches ached...!! I know we might have been a little hysterical at that moment but.... we were helpless...!!  ;-)