"Words once said can never be taken back", a very popular saying and i personally agree to it. Whatever a person says changes with the situation he/she is in. If you are in a rocking mood , you'd say different things, then again, if you feel vulnerable , you will say some other things. There are so many good and bad feelings which control the words we say. Feelings and words are very strongly connected, but the main problem is that sometimes we don't say what we actually feel for someone, instead we say whatever we feel like saying :P .
There goes a story of Gautam Buddha where he was sitting under a tree and a visitor comes to meet him. Before they could start talking , two people came near that tree and were fighting with each other and shouting on top of their voices. The man saw this and questioned Gautam Buddha , " Why do people shout when they are angry ? ". Gautam Buddha took some time and answered the man , "Have you seen people in love ? How close their hearts are ? They talk so softly with each other because their hearts are very close. Then they start whispering when their hearts come even closer , and then there is a time when there is no space between their hearts, their hearts become one, that's the time when they just see in each others eyes and understand each other. Now the people who are angry, though they might be standing very near, shout while saying anything , because their hearts are very distant. This distance is so much that all their power of reasoning just collapses ,and then they say hurtful things to each other. We must never let this happen. " The man was very happy and satisfied with the answer Buddha gave him.
I gave a thought to this and i feel maybe it's true somewhere. There are many people who say hurtful things to the people they love the most in a state of anger. Some of the things aren't even relevant or true :| . In any relationship, fights are inevitable, but saying and hurting the other person is not at all right. The person who says those things might just say it and leave, but the one who hears it is the one who gets hurts. Everyone gets hurt , everyone cries in isolation. You may ask anyone, how their life is, some may say it's a mess, some may say that they are simply living. The many the people, that many different answers. We all have ups and downs in our lives, there are many happy moments, and then there are many sad one's too. No matter what you do, you can never ever avoid the sad phases of life. But that's the best part, these phases, these episodes of life are the one's that brings out the best in you. It may hurt for a while, sometimes it may hurt a lot, but no worries ! Sulk for a while, think about it , when you realize you can't change it, you can't change what's done, that's the moment you'll change your self..! :i . This person will be one step ahead than the previous one. So, next time someone asks you how is your life going, your answer should be.."Great ! " :) :e .
There goes a story of Gautam Buddha where he was sitting under a tree and a visitor comes to meet him. Before they could start talking , two people came near that tree and were fighting with each other and shouting on top of their voices. The man saw this and questioned Gautam Buddha , " Why do people shout when they are angry ? ". Gautam Buddha took some time and answered the man , "Have you seen people in love ? How close their hearts are ? They talk so softly with each other because their hearts are very close. Then they start whispering when their hearts come even closer , and then there is a time when there is no space between their hearts, their hearts become one, that's the time when they just see in each others eyes and understand each other. Now the people who are angry, though they might be standing very near, shout while saying anything , because their hearts are very distant. This distance is so much that all their power of reasoning just collapses ,and then they say hurtful things to each other. We must never let this happen. " The man was very happy and satisfied with the answer Buddha gave him.
I gave a thought to this and i feel maybe it's true somewhere. There are many people who say hurtful things to the people they love the most in a state of anger. Some of the things aren't even relevant or true :| . In any relationship, fights are inevitable, but saying and hurting the other person is not at all right. The person who says those things might just say it and leave, but the one who hears it is the one who gets hurts. Everyone gets hurt , everyone cries in isolation. You may ask anyone, how their life is, some may say it's a mess, some may say that they are simply living. The many the people, that many different answers. We all have ups and downs in our lives, there are many happy moments, and then there are many sad one's too. No matter what you do, you can never ever avoid the sad phases of life. But that's the best part, these phases, these episodes of life are the one's that brings out the best in you. It may hurt for a while, sometimes it may hurt a lot, but no worries ! Sulk for a while, think about it , when you realize you can't change it, you can't change what's done, that's the moment you'll change your self..! :i . This person will be one step ahead than the previous one. So, next time someone asks you how is your life going, your answer should be.."Great ! " :) :e .
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